Saturday, May 28, 2011

Kitchen Confidential

I can't tell you how many people have told me that this is one of their favorite books.  I resisted reading it for the longest time because I assumed that only people who love to cook would enjoy it.  I actively dislike cooking.  I'd rather do laundry.  I sincerely wish I enjoyed cooking.  It must be so gratifying to enjoy such a nurturing and creative hobby, but unfortunately, it does nothing for me.  I do it because it needs to be done, period.

The only glimmer of fondness that I have for cooking stems from the fact that my daughter adores it.  In fact, she gets a little pissed if I pre-prepare things while she's at school and can't participate.  The other night she cried when I told her we were ordering in.  Oh my god, I sound like Mommy Dearest.  I'm just trying to be honest, folks.  I thank my lucky stars that India loves to cook.  I'm counting the days until she decides she wants to be in charge of the family meals.

So when I finally caved in to the peer pressure and picked up this book, I was pleasantly surprised to find it highly entertaining.  Bourdain clearly loves food and has a far more sophisticated palate than I will ever have.  The way he writes about food and cooking is so engaging and even mesmerizing that you can't help but enjoy it.

Furthermore, he gives the reader an incredibly candid glimpse of the inner workings of restaurant kitchens.  If any of you have ever worked at a restaurant in any capacity, you'll find plenty to relate to in this book.  He also gives credit where credit is due in lauding the Latinos who are the backbone of the restaurant industry.  All too often, the white male chef basks in the glory of a restaurant's good press while the extraordinary support of the Latino kitchen staff goes completely unnoticed.  Not cool.

I also like the helpful hints Bourdain provides to eager foodies.  For instance, you should never order fish on a Monday.  It's most likely been sitting around since Friday when most fish vendors make their final weekly deliveries.  Also, avoid hollandaise sauce at all costs.  It's rarely made to order, and typically sits for hours at a temperature which is a perfect breeding ground for bacteria.  What else?  Oh, if you ever decide to open a restaurant or upgrade your own kitchen, scan your area for restaurants that are going out of business.  You get great deals on used, restaurant quality cookware.

Mostly, it's a fascinating romp through the restaurant business.  Bourdain has had his share of hijinks and hilarity in the kitchen and it's good of him to share them with us.  It's a feel good book.  Try it.  You'll like it.

Kitchen Confidential Updated Edition: Adventures in the Culinary Underbelly (P.S.)

Monday, May 16, 2011

Loving-Kindness

Hello again.  I know I haven't blogged in awhile.  I've been caught up in another writing project, which is a good thing for me.  I've also been reading a lot of self-helpy type stuff, and don't want to get too preachy with you all.  I did, however, happen upon this gem recently: Lovingkindness: The Revolutionary Art of Happiness.

My therapist (whom I LOVE) has been telling me for months about the loving-kindness meditation.  In a nutshell, by following this meditation, you focus on yourself and ask for essential things like health, peace, joy and love.  Then you focus on someone you love and ask for the same things for him or her, then go on and ask for these things for someone about whom you have neutral feelings.  Next, you focus on requesting these things for someone who presents you with some sort of difficulty, then ask for these things for all living beings.  As a result, you end up feeling calm, centered, loving and soothed.

I went to a spiritual retreat on mother's day, and the message most strongly conveyed there was essentially the same as the loving-kindness meditation.  One should always put love and light into any interaction or project and you'll basically end up reaping what you sow.  The day after the retreat, I was walking Walter, and happened upon a stack of books on someone's stoop.  I know that I've written about this before, but I'll say it again:  I adore all of you people who park your books on your stoops and share them with the world.  Lovingkindness: The Revolutionary Art of Happiness has been my best stoop find so far.  I love that I found it on the heels of my woo-woo spiritual retreat, as if the universe had conspired to have it land in my lap.

I've been doing the meditation daily for the past week and it's been absolutely life-altering.  I highly recommend giving it a try.  Spread the love and watch it come back to you.

Lovingkindness: The Revolutionary Art of Happiness (Shambhala Classics)